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Jim O'Connor
Master of Applied Psychotherapy (U.T.S)
Bachelor of Science (Anat/Psych) (U.Syd)
Graduate Diploma of Counselling (A.C.A.P)
Advanced Practitioner Certificate Clinical Hypnotherapy (A.H.A)
Certificate IV Work Place Training and Assessment (A.C.A.P)
Member (P.A.C.F.A) Member (C.A.P.A) Member (A.A.C.B.T)

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Counselling for all your relationship needs and concerns
Serving Sydney City Lower North Shore Crows Nest Sydney South Glebe Inner West

 
 

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9420 0788

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info@jimoconnor.com.au
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Sydney City
Crows Nest
Glebe

Career Stress and Relationships

The effect of career stress on sufferers and a the people who care for them can be great putting enormous pressures on relationships. Help for the sufferer and the people who care and support them is availlable. Read on to find out more about this condition and how I can help both the people with career related stress and the people who love and support them.

What is Stress?

Stress is real. It can be caused by excessive demands or excessive boredom. It can be aggravated by the imagination or by the rules, beliefs and attitudes that we set ourselves. Extreme stress or overwhelm is defined as the physiological, mental and emotional response that occurs when a person reaches their limits of physical, mental and emotional tolerance. In short when your stress levels go up your tolerance levels go down.

What is career stress?

Career stress is the physiological, mental and emotional response that occurs when we reach or exceed our limits of tolerance for the things in our careers. This could include reaching our limits for workload, physical exhaustion, social and business interaction, our limits of organisation, disappointments and set backs. In the modern world career stress is fast becoming the biggest cause of ill health for many people.

The effects of career stress on relationships include:

Many people underestimate the effects of career stress on the sufferer and their relationships. As a persons career stress increases many or their important relationship skills can become effected. For example as stress goes up a persons tollerance for more stress goes down. Consquently they become short tempered and may even become aggressive. As well as tollerance declining a persons mental faculties become stretched so they become confused, forgettful and distracted. I isn't difficult to see how these things can impact negatively on their relationships. Tiredness and fatigue become a problem in career stress stripping away a persons desire to spend time with loved ones.

When one or both partners are suffering from career stress their relationships will suffer in kind. There will be an increase in arguements, hurtful and defensive behaviours, fights and even domestic violence can be the outcome. Often one or both partners will become dissillusioned and start to withdraw from the relationship. Tiredness and fatigue will often mean that sexual intimacy declines and acts of love and kindness also deminish.

What are the symptoms of career stress?

The Symptoms of Career Stress include mental, emotional, physical, behavioural and socials effects.

Some of the mental symptoms of career stress include:

  • A mental deterioration in a persons capacity for more tasks.
  • The stressed person will increasingly have difficulty resolving problems
  • Their memory will begin to deteriorate
  • Rigid adherence to dogmatic beliefs

Some of the emotional symptoms of Career Stress include:

  • Their tolerance will also reduce leading to short temperedness
  • Aggitation
  • Difficulty with noise
  • Angry outbursts .
  • Mood swings are common in people suffering with stress career stress

Some of the behavioural symptoms of include:

  • Avoidance of stressful situations
  • Excessive sense of responsibility
  • Perfectionism
  • Excessive alcohol use
  • Crying
  • Explosive demonstrations of anger

Some of the physical symptoms of career stress include:

  • Increased sensitivity to pain
  • Headaches
  • Muscle and joint pains
  • High blood pressure
  • Tremors
  • Difficulty winding down and relaxing

Some of the physiological symptoms of career stress include:

  • A vulnerability to illness including ulcers, arthritis, heart attack and some forms of cancer.
  • Some of the behavioural symptoms of career stress include:
  • These people will often become less productive
  • More aggitated and reactive to situations
  • They will often indulge in excessive drinking and drug taking, sex and food, in order to immediately reduce their stress.

These are only some of the symptoms of career stress and this list is not diagnostic. If you believe you or someone you know is suffering from career stress call for an appointment.

What is the best treatment for career stress?

The treatments for stress need to be comprehensive and tailored to you and your specific needs in order to get the quickest and most lasting results. Usually they will include mental, emotional, physical, and social strategies. The most important thing to do is to have an accurate assessment of your situation so that the most effective treatment plan can be formulated. Once an effective treatment program has been implemented I will support you until your stress in under control or eliminated. As we get your career stress under control you will automatically notice an improvement in your relationship in all ways.

What should you do next?

Come in for an assessment and I will outline the most effective treatment plan for you and your situation. I will then help you implement it and support you through the change process modifying things as needed.

Often simply speaking to someone about your situation is enough to fix or reduce the problems. Don't wait, call for an appointment and lets get your started in getting you happy and back on track.

I have three offices in convenient locations throughout Sydney

I have three offices in convenient locations through out Sydney, one in Macquarie Street Sydney, one in Crows Nest on Sydney's lower North Shore and one in Glebe in Sydney Inner West. For an appointment please call my head office on 02 9420 0788